Comments on: Etiquette 101: Receiving Gifts

By: Becky

Becky — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 22:09:27 +0000

Thanks Anne! I like the press answer as well – I think my mother and FMIL will be on board with this. The difficult part will be convincing my FI that we should possibly register to one store for those who are seeking that option. He thinks any type of ‘suggestion’ of gift is forcing peoples hands. I think he just has the idea of a registry really stuck in his head and the stigma attached to it that you’re stuck with the choices of a $2 dish towel or a $500 china set. He’s only been to two weddings in his lifetime so he’s not too clued in on the new registry alternatives and I have only been to registry based weddings so I’m slowly learning some of these new alternatives. Thanks!

By: joyful weddings & events

joyful weddings & events — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 21:43:30 +0000

I know that this might not be the most proper etiquette, but I have had some clients who faced this issue register at stores that have good return policies. Stores such as Bed, Bath & Beyond offer cash back on registry gifts and Crate & Barrel will mail you a check for items returned. This is a way to receive cash without having to be rude in asking for it. However, many people see returning gifts as rude. I just thought I would throw it out there since I have seen couples do this :)

By: Jenna

Jenna — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 19:52:57 +0000

I like this whole “press answer” idea. I think it would help confused grooms as well. Or maybe I am the only one who seems to consistently have a really confused groom on her hands :)