Flowers die.
This is my first thought when considering how important I want the flowers to be during the wedding and reception. Clearly I am not placing a lot of importance on the flora and fauna. Again I go back to the value of prioritizing. Our church is so stunning and our reception site is so elegant that neither Jurg nor I felt the need to overdo it on the flowers. However,
after calling several florists I learned that clearly there were people who place a great deal of importance on the budding beauties. Some of the minimums these places had were insane in my opinion. Did I mention flowers die? Luckily we met up with Rachel at an adorable flower shop in Lincoln Park, steps away from our church. I actually lived above this flower shop for two years in college so it excites me to have a small personal connection with the place.
Now, let’s be clear even though I do not put flowers way up on my priority list that does not mean I do not have opinions about them.
I have always loved Calla Lilly’s
I think they embody feel we want our wedding to have: simple, classic and elegant. They are so sleek and stand on their own so well and you need not hide them among any sort of “filler flowers.”
Thus, the perfect choice for my bouquet, my bridesmaids, the boutonnieres and other centerpieces. Here are some pretty images.
So pretty and simple. Not to mention small….I do not want to be overwhelmed with a poufy bouquet. Heavens no.
I think the guys could get behind this.
You can’t go wrong with a nice calla.
Too bad they are not so much in season around January rendering them more expensive than I hoped. Originally one way we were going to cut costs was to have different centerpieces at the reception. Some would be callas while others would have dusty miller and perhaps silver foliage. However after careful consideration I deemed this idea “to kitchy” and too “winter wonderland.” We have now opted to incorporate other white flowers to not only offset some of the cost, but also to add more visual interest. The centerpieces will be low and made up a single flower. It suits my simple tastes beautifully. Of course calla will still be the main flower, she will just have to share the stage with a few others. Those may include:
White Hydrangea
White Orchids
White Ranunculus
White Roses
There are a few others which have been suggested to me, but I am not sold. They are: white lilac, star of Bethlehem and white snapdragons.
I am very pleased with our choices and hope to donate the flowers at the end of the night to a nursing home, or someplace close by that can enjoy them longer than a few hours. Tis‘ the season as they say.
(P.S- For those of you who love flowers and would certainly put them at the top of their list I hope I didn’t offend you!)
{Photos from the Knot, Grower’s Box, and Bride’s}