Making a List, Checking it Twice
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This week will mark three months until the wedding so after a bit of a hiatus in important decision-making, I’ve decided now is likely a good time to evaluate where we are and what major items are left to be accomplished between now and July. To be honest, I don’t typically like nor put much value on the prescribed planning timelines you’ll find on a lot of wedding planning websites, but I do think now perfect timing for me to be checking in on myself and getting organized again. So, with three months to go the list looks something like this…

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- {Invitations} Mail invitations (scheduled for the first week of May) and begin cataloging RSVPs
- {Cake} Decide on to cake or not to cake and if not, what we’d like to serve instead
- {Ceremony} Finish selection of readings, readers, write vows, etc.
- {RSVP Info} Mail list of weekend events + reminder to make accommodation arrangements to confirmed guests
- {Itinerary} Mail list of weekend events/times/locations, suggestions for attire and other helpful information to wedding party
- {Groomsmen Attire} Finalize decision on what M and his groomsmen will be wearing, make rental arrangements
- {Wedding Party Gifts} Complete purchase of wedding party gifts for 7 bridesmaids, 1 bridesman, and 6 groomsmen
- {DIY Projects} Complete or scrap remaining DIY projects including favors, table numbers, escort cards, programs, photo guest book and whatever other little ideas I fall in love with between now and then
- {Rentals} Finalize details on what we’re renting and if it’s being delivered/setup or if we’re tackling that on our own to save money
- {Music} Finalize music selections and meet with our friend/DJ to cover the basics…otherwise it’s all up to him
- {Thank You Cards} Find/buy or design/print cute thank you cards so they are ready to go when gifts arrive
- {Flowers} Find a weekend to mock up some bouquets and centerpieces so I can convince myself I won’t go crazy doing it on our own

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So, with three months to go, that’s how things are shaping up. I feel ok about what we have left to do and honestly, I think I’ll be comfortable scaling back on the list to stay sane if need be. How are you June/July/August brides doing with your lists?


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Ugh - We’re getting married in August & we just booked the venue! Sometimes I freak out about it but since our venue is a restaurant/bar/lounge it includes food, alcohol, chairs, tables, linens & has so much of it’s own decor, we’ll have very little to do. So I go back & forth between “ohmygod we’ll never be able to pull this off” and “no problem, we’ll work it out”. Sometimes I feel crazy….
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