Long before we ever got engaged I knew one thing for sure.
I. Hated. Bridesmaid dresses. I mean physically cannot stand them. Now before you start typing out an angry email to me; hear me out. I am a practical person. When it comes to money, I always want to find the best deal and something that is reasonable to buy. I’ve never understood the concept of saying to your closest gals, “hey, I love you so much that I want to honor you by being in my wedding. Oh and by the way, it’s going to end up costing you hundreds of dollars before it’s all over. LOVE YA!” I also cannot justify spending $200 on a dress. ESPECIALLY if it’s a dress that will only be worn once (lets be honest, those dresses can never be worn again).
Originally my plan was to have them all wear a black dress of their choice. I loved how it worked out for SexyRedFrame-and I was ready to let my girls wear whatever they wanted (in black). Here was my inspiration:

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However my Dad, who is paying for our wonderful wedding, did not like the idea. He liked the look of a more matching bridal party. So we compromised. We found AWESOME dresses from Victoria’s Secret, and the girls love them. They can wear them over and over, and they weren’t expensive. YAY!

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Cute, huh? Now I know everyone has seen images from my next inspiration. I love this wedding and I LOVE the bridesmaids look. My girls are pumped to rock some awesome boots at the farm.

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Now for their flowers. I didn’t want to spend a ton on bouquets. We didn’t need to hire a florist for any table decor because it’s being provided by the venue. The scenery is so gorgeous so I really didn’t want to try to compete with the natural setting. SO, we are doing the bouquets ourselves. After much thought, I decided to do wheat and dried flowers. This way we can do the bouquets ahead of time and not have to worry about them at all the days before the wedding. Here is an inspiration photo, but we got a lot more dried flowers and wheat at the wholesale florist.

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So there you have it. Our unique and different (still not my dad’s favorite, but he’s dealing with it) bridesmaid look.
Anyone else out there doing something totally different and unconventional for their bridesmaid look? Please say so so I don’t feel like a weirdo!





yes, my bridesmaid dresses are navy wrap dresses with polka dots from Banana Republic! (I’ll probably post about them soon). I saw them in the store and they ended up going on sale for $60 so I nagged my 5 girls until they all called and ordered them (you can have them shipped from any store that has them) and I’ve seen what 2 of them look like in them via email. but so far I’m really excited with them. They really do seem like something they would wear again, they were affordable, and they definitely fit my personality and thus my wedding. does that make you feel any better?
Yep, I found amazing simple gray dresses from H&M. And to dress them up, I found an Etsy seller who makes adorable jackets for only $40 each. She’s doing them in yellow!
I’m happy you found your bridesmaid dresses! But, it’s a bummer that just because your dad is paying for the wedding, he gets his way. I hope the whole ordeal hasn’t been too stressful!
Best wishes.
My gals love their dresses too – simple halter dresses from JCrew. I’m thrilled bc who would want their best friends and family to hate the way they look, really? Two of them already have plans to wear the dress again after our wedding to attend other weddings – whoopee!
Victory B., I looked at your blog to see those grey dresses and they really are amazing! Great find! I want my bridesmaids in dark grey dresses (it’s the one thing I decided when we first got engaged, and it’s the only decision I haven’t changed 100 times!) but I haven’t found any yet (I want long ones, and one dress needs to be a maternity one). We’re also in October….time for me to hustle. Might have to get “real” bridesmaid dresses. :-(
I told my bridsmaids to wear whatever they want. And it’ll be really non-traditional because one of them is my brother. Who has declared that he won’t be shaving his face (one of his small ways of rebelling). I don’t care. But my sister/best woman wants to wear a long dress (I keep picturing a green one, but the color really doesn’t matter) and I have no idea what my fiance’s sister/other brideswoman wants to wear.
So no, you’re not the only unconventional one! =)
I am on your side! I love your inspirations and ideas — I’ve actually been looking at those same photos for inspiration for my own big day. I’m 100% behind letting my bridesmaids pick out their own dresses; my only stipulation is color — chocolate brown. I think it will look fabulous in the photos, each dress embracing their own personalities. I also want to make sure that they will wear the dress again (I’m all about making my wedding as sustainable/eco-friendly as possible). I also agree with your flower idea. My wedding is right after Halloween, so I’m going to collect a bunch of locally grown mums in red and orange and arrange our bouquets the day before — I also want to throw in a few fall leaves to compliment the theme.
Kudos to you for being so creative! Your girls will look fabulous!
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super cute :) definitely a fan of this look.
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Brittany! Thanks for using my picture, seeing it here out of the blue made me giggle… My sis looks so pretty. Anyway, as if it matters, I am so pleased with all your decisions! Your bridesmaids, your boots, your Proteas, your dress and hello, your venue? Oh I wish I could be at your wedding, it’s going to be out of this world: real, fab, sincere… Congratulations girl, you know who you are. xxx Mwah!
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