One of my favorite elements from my wedding – and still one of our most cherished wedding keepsakes – is our ketubah:
{photo from author’s personal collection}
A ketubah is a Jewish marriage contract but can be a lovely tradition to incorporate into any wedding. The wording can be adjusted and customized as you feel appropriate or in consultation with your officiant. Ketubahs were originally developed to specify the rights of a woman in marriage and her husband’s obligations to her, but have envolved in recent years and are now commonly used by couples as a declaration of their commitments to each other in their marriage. The ketubah is signed by the bride and groom, two witnesses, and the officiant in a small ceremony just before the wedding, and then is traditionally read aloud to all the other guests during the ceremony.
One of the first ketubahs that inspired me while I was doing research for my own ketubah design was this ketubah from Sam and Dave’s wedding on Something Old, Something New:
Not only is the wording incredibly sweet – but I love the whimsical illustrations (designed by the bride) around the text. For more illustrated ketubah inspiration, Cara from Octavine Illustration has a lovely portfolio of illustrated ketubahs in both English and Hebrew:
For something a bit more modern, these designs from New Ketubah are just lovely:
You could also ask your invitation designer to adapt your invitation design for use in a ketubah. Oslo Press created this custom wood veneer ketubah for one of their clients last year – it was such a big hit that the rabbi walked the ketubah up the aisle so that everyone could get a close look! Are any of you planning to incorporate a ketubah or any other custom marriage certificate into your wedding?
{top photo by nole from oh so beautiful paper for elizabeth anne designs, all other photos from their sources}











The amount of times I’ve lusted after a ketubah is probably culturally inappropriate, but I can’t help myself – they are so beautiful! I’m taking your advice and incorporating it anyway… even though I’m not Jewish and even though my wedding is already over. :-) But seriously: first anniversary gift?!
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My ketubah was one of my very favorite wedding “things” as well. I’m glad for that since we have to look at it forever!! When we signed it before the ceremony, our rabbi had our parents physically hand it over to us in a gesture of loving approval of the marriage… it was quite meaningful. I love the ones you’ve featured, it’s wonderful how creative and artistic they’ve become.
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Thanks you so much for this post! I’ve been looking for beautiful, modern ketubah’s and have had a hard time finding a design that fits our style. These are great! Thanks!!!
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We really looked into an amazing Ketubah and wanted a paper cut ketubah because it’s a traditional Jewish artform. We ended up getting a custom ketubah that we can see everyday in our hall and I heart it! My favorites that are not paper cut are the New Ketubah ones, so fresh and simple!
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I think it’s a pretty interesting idea to have the designer of the wedding invites help build a Ketubah that fits stylistically if it’s important for the couple that the whole wedding be visually coherent. Just make sure they understand the blessings, and don’t do something silly with the Hebrew.
I also wanted to share my aunt’s (Amalya Nini) work as well ( http://amalyanini.com ). Beautiful paper-cut, water color with gold leaf. She draws upon her passion for the natural beauty in Israel.
@maggie: I think it’s interesting that you and many other non-Jews are starting to incorporate the Ketubah tradition into their weddings. There was a big nytimes article on the subject. Pretty cool.
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jonah
Nice to see so many Ketubah comments. I also love the Ketubah we purchased for our wedding. It reminds me every day of our special wedding day and of our commitment to each other. I feel that in addition to the contractual components, the Ketubah is a beatutiful work of art that represents the union of two people in love. I am an artist and started making Ketubot about a year and a half ago from my original artwork. In response to Maggie, I would say that an Anniversary Ketubah is also a beautiful way to commemorate and renew your love for one another. Best of luck finding the perfect Ketubah for your weddings!
Allyson
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As a Filipina it’s interesting to learn that Ketubah is like a marriage of love and fine art wherein every detail can be a symbol that has its own meaning. Because of its ancient and venerable history, Ketubah has its place as an important form of Jewish ceremonial art throughout time.