Getting legally married prior to our main wedding has a lot of benefits.
To start with, we now no longer have to be in Ireland a week prior to the wedding in order to register. This means, more time for our honeymoon! Additionally, I’ll be able to take my time in changing my last name and doing all of the necessary paperwork involved.
Among the many other reasons, the main benefit is that Ger will be able to apply for his Green Card. By doing it in advance, Ger will be legally able to enter back into the U.S. after the wedding!
Since we decided to have the legal ceremony over Christmas, we’ve had to put everything together rather quickly. I immediately called up the local courthouse to see exactly what we needed to do.
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Like many other states, there is a (3) day waiting period from the time you apply to when you actually can pick up your license. I was able to get this waived due to our short time in Pennsylvania. Normally I would have had to send a letter to the court-house requesting a waiver and our reason why. Luckily for us, they were able to approve this over the phone!
We’ll both need to present photo identification, such as a driver’s license, state ID, or passport. Social Security numbers will be requested.
Another formality I was concerned about was residency and being able to apply. I found out that they don’t require us to be current residents of PA to get our marriage license at the court-house. Score!
For the county that I’m from, the cost will range between $40-$75 and they only accept cash. Not a bad cost for freedom!
We’ve decided to get married by a justice of the peace that is a family friend. It will be great to have someone there that is a familiar face.
We’ll be driving back to Pennsylvania on the 23rd, getting our marriage license on the 24th and then have our ceremony on the 27th! It’s going to be a quick process, especially with the holidays in-between.
Did your state’s marriage license regulations create a challenge for you or was it smooth sailing and stress free?