What to Wear: Business Casual Wedding

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My husband loves to get dressed up. Wearing three-piece suits with patterned shirts and patterned ties, sometimes he looks like he’s walked out of the pages of Details magazine. That’s one reason why he was so excited to attend a friend’s wedding next weekend–the opportunity to wear his new bespoke suit. Unfortunately for J, the bride and groom have asked their guests to “opt for business casual attire instead of more formal options.”

Business casual attire? What exactly does that mean? Khakis with a button-down shirt and a tie? Khakis with a polo shirt? J complains that girls have it easy. We can just throw on the same dress we’d normally wear with a pair of more casual shoes, which is what I’m planning on doing for this particular affair. I’m dressing down a dress I wore to my cousins wedding last year by adding a pair of flat, black sandals. This is the outfit  I’m planning to wear (my apologies for the poor quality image of the dress; image of shoes from DSW):

Adding insult to injury, J has even fewer options of places to shop than I do out here in Omaha. J.Crew recently discontinued selling menswear at their one-and-only Omaha store because, while it was selling well, it wasn’t selling as well as the women’s clothing. There are a bunch of older men’s clothing stores, like Joseph A. Bank, and a handful of younger guy’s retailers like Abercrombie and Buckle. But what’s available for those young adults? Nowadays, at least out here, not much.

So I ask you, readers: What’s appropriate for a guy to wear to a business casual wedding?